who are you and what didi you do with my wife? mrlament: somtimes when you seperate you find out things about yoursel and(hopefully)
but the longer my wife and i are seperated the more i'm finding out how much of what and who she really wanted to be was being surpressed by me and our relationship...i guess. i mean profiles on aol...all kinds of things
i thought she was happy being a wife and mom...Ho my God she was a desperate housewife!
i dont even know the person i'm finding out about new boyfriend...all kinds of slang on her away messages "holla at ur gurl" "and we'll do like we do" she never spoke to me like that and she's a well educated woman.....its just bizare.
seemingly a whole new culture/person i knew nothing about.
i acctually feel better knowing that she just neede to be her and it wasnt all my fault...has anyone gone through this kind of revelation, if i being toghether was going to surpress her or prevent her from being the person she really wants and needs to be i feel better that she's happy...
i'm sitting here going over the recent events of the last two weeks and i'm like who the hell are you anfd what didi you do with my wife?
with every thing she experiencing now( and boyfriend aside i probrably still dont know the half of it...i'm kinda curious to she how HER story turns out) lol,lol,lol in a sense i feel good for her for a change she's "free to be me"
she must have been unhappy for a long time, and probrably didint know how to tell me our life was a lie.
Re: who are you and what didi you do with my wife? Suiscalin: I'm finding similarities in your description of your wife's with that of my ex. It could be, as I suspect it is in my case, that your wife is not sure who she is, and adjusts her personality to go with that of the other man. This kind of person seems to be dependant on other people for their identity. I don't know, just throwing out a possibility...