The Madonna/Whore Syndrome Samarra: OK......guys.....this one's for you.
Why is it that men say they want a good, moral, pristine woman when what they seek out is a....for lack of a better word.....slutty type who is ready, willing to get it on anywhere at anytime??
What if a woman displayed these 2 characteristics at the same time? Would that freak you out?? So many men seem to want to subdivide us into two groups when many of us are both.......but when faced with our "other" side some men pull away......WHY???
Re: The Madonna/Whore Syndrome charmed: A great topic, Samarra.
In my experience from teen years to present when I've been cheated on, it's been with well-known slutty types. Not for a relationship. Not with good sense in wondering about diseases. They simply take an "easy" opportunity. (emphasis on EASY)
I'm not judging these women but speaking from knowledge of them.
One of my bf's from a couple years ago cheated on me with a VERY well known slutty type. This woman drank all the time and even exposed herself to anyone that came through her house. My bf was not lacking anything from me and even said that he'd never been as satisfied with any other woman. Ok, so what's the deal? Why risk your health in having sex with a woman that you know has been with numerous men? What pleasure could there be in getting busted, losing a good relationship for THIS?
My most recent ex LOL cheated on me with a stripper. Not full-blown sex, but "enough". He also said he'd never been as satisifed with any other woman before me. I was the love of his life, so he said. He lost it ALL and for what??? A woman that performs for numerous men and probably could care less about him?
Please explain guys. Is "getting a nut" THAT important???
Re: The Madonna/Whore Syndrome mrlament: samarra,
youre describing my wife...needles to say she's er...ah...for lack of a better term servicing someone else right about now. men dont want to seperate them, you know the old saying a whore in bed and a lady in public...its only when there reversed that "we" i cant speak for everyone but "we" have a problem. anyway i dont think i quite understand your point, whos complaining?
sounds like youre mixing with prudes. what happens in the prifacy of your own home should stay there.
Re: The Madonna/Whore Syndrome freckles: There are men out there looking.
There are Women out there looking.
We just do not know who each other is.
Take myself. I am in middle of Divorce. My Mental Ill ExWife HAD
everything she ever needed in me.
BUT she ALSO Wanted Alcohol,POT, and Raise a Son Who does same.
Me Alcohol,Pot etc is Bad I would not smoke Pot or Drink for ANY Reason.
In the Bible it says You can not Yoke Good and Bad together.
Any way I will be Looking after Divorce. in Jan.
What * I * want in a Woman is a Old Fasion Lady. Someone who takes her
VALUES right out of the Bible.
Respect,Love Care for your Husband ALL his Life !!!!!!
I will give my New Wife the Same.
I have decided the Woman I want must LIKE me. Someone who WANTS me.
After that very important. NON DRINKER(NONE),NON DRUG USER, NON MENTAL HEALTH PILL TAKER, NON FRIDGED,NON MARRIED MANY TIMES.
Christain Lady.
Wants to have as many kids as God gives.(NON TUBES TIED)
Pretty is a PLUS.
A LOT of Women Overlook me. Because you will NOT find me in a Bar.
You would find me at CHURCH on Sunday. I like the Libary.
What I offer a Lady . I have Home(Unless Judge says Sell, My Lawyer says I get) I have several vehickles(I can not spell)
My uncle is working(Overhauling a small pic up for me) I plan on turning it into a IceCream Truck(Dream I have Had)
I Own own Business. Three day work week. Sat,Mon,Tue Make as much as most in Factories all week.
I plan after Divorce open Online Book Store(I have several thousand books.(A Lady called said in couple months she may give several thousand more)
I just bought some Domains banalcohol.com,bantobbaco.com,banadultry.com,bancreditcards.com,bantobbaco.com and several more.(My computer is Windows 95 so I have to work on Web Pages at Libary. I just started on banalcohol.com
not started on rest yet)
I am 44, White Male, Brown Hair,In Texas.
Of course Lawyer said I can not date until after Divorce.
and I am thinking Where are the Ladies who would like me ?
I can even Train my New Future Wife to Do My Class if she wants to.
Oh yes I almost forgot after Divorce I will open Ebay Store.
And My EXWife her view of me is I am BORING.
Do you think anyone will take up the job?
P.S. My EX left Me, not Me her. I was brought up Christian. Once Married thats IT! Forevor.
So thats why right now I am Confused, Lost, Alone.
But I have some Hope for Future.
Re: The Madonna/Whore Syndrome charmed: [quote]what happens in the prifacy of your own home should stay there.[/quote]
uh I agree, but what we are saying is that when a man is completely satisifed both in his words and sexual behavior, why does he do stupid things such as having sex with someone that he knows will screw anything (including the family goat LMAO)? Why is having sex so important that he will risk everything?
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