Talking about other women constantly...? charmed: Not all men do this, but I've seen many that do...
WHILE in the presence of a woman they are either getting to know or are in a relationship with, many will constantly talk about other women, whether it be celebrities or women they know.
IF a man is interested in a woman, why does he do this? Doesn't it send a message to her that he is not satisifed with what's right in front of him, from her perspective? How would a woman know if you're interested if all you talk about is "other" women?
This happened to me with one guy especially. I swear he would talk about any and every woman he encountered, even at the gas station. How was I to know he had genuine interest in me? I later found out that he truly did and would have liked a relationship with me. I had no idea and personally his constant ranting about other women was boring. Had he took interest in me, I would have known he WAS interested. Not that hard to figure out!!!
It's one thing to talk about other women in the context of a conversation or in a respectful manner, but when it's all you talk about in the presence of a woman you are pursuing it makes you look like a P-I-G. Can I get a PIG? woohoo LOL
Your thoughts guys...?
Re: Talking about other women constantly...? Samarra: ;D
OK....It's evident I'm not of the male persuasion.....although on other sites I've been flamed as one (long story....don't ask)
Seriously.....please no offense guys I'm sleepy.
I think men don't realize how much it may hurt us to keep bringing up other women....although when I mentioned how delicious I thought Keith Hamilton Cobb was (Tyr Anasazi on Andromeda....check him out girls!) my boyfriend was offended.....maybe simply a matter of understanding the others' point of view.
Men don't understand that we're visual too.
You want to be compared to someone else? Please don't do it to us.
Re: Talking about other women constantly...? charmed: I've had the same thing to happen.
IF I mention even a name, men seem to be offended and say things like, "OH SO YOU LIKE HIM"? I have NEVER been one to bring up other men, how sexy they are, etc. in front of a man that I'm interested in and especially one that I love. I don't really see the point unless you are in a discussion and it's in the context of that discussion.
I'm not blind and I do know when a man is attractive, but what's the point in flaunting it in an adolescent manner?