my wife left me ariamusi: my wife left me for a guy she met online in a game (baggamon).we were together for 9 years 2 years married.she is now staying with her mom(3 days ago).i love her very much like (waking up early in the morning and prepare her milk before she goes to work).i never did anything bad to her like looking at other women and i was gentle to her all the time.she says she loves me but she is in love with the other guy.What shall i do please help me!!
Re: my wife left me Samarra: Hi empty,
I know this is not what you want to hear but there's nothing you can do if she claims to love the other guy.
I wouldn't worry over it too much though....a guy she met online playing backgammon???? Sounds like a real romance.....just stay calm....bide your time 'cause something tells me this may not last.....hang in there IF you want her back.......but for now give her her space and see what happens.
Just don't be too nice or she WILL walk all over you.
Good Luck and keep posting!
Re: my wife left me ariamusi: Thank you very-very much for your advice i realy feel better now and i agree with you 100% although its very painfull cause i am a dam sensitive person.(Musician - Composer)
THANK YOU AGAIN!!
Re: my wife left me freckles: [glow=red,2,300]I was talking to my mechanic while he changed my oil.
I told him about my Wife taking off.[/glow]
HE said he was never divorced. BUT a lot of his friends were and over the years he figured out what happens.
First it is SELFISHNESS. Extreme Selfishnes no thought about thier mate at all.
Thier mind starts turning.
Have you ever seen a Little Kid who grows tired of a Toy. and wants a New Toy ?
They will do ANYTHING to get the New Toy! It does NOT matter if they have to live in the Bar-ditch or Starve to death or ANYTHING. NOTHING ELSE Matters except they are tired of Old Toy(Even if Best toy on Earth)
And they Want the NEW TOY.
Then after a very short time they Soon Tire of the New Toy and put it down.
And the cycle starts over.
[glow=red,2,300]I asked him would she ever start thinking she made mistake ? And want me agan ?[/glow]
He said * If her mind starts turning ............
Re: my wife left me mrlament: sorry to hear this empty, welcome to the board...i agree with samarra
(as usual)... she's quite right. incidently by the time they decide to leave,
it usualy means theyve been cheating for a while (dont mean tomake your mind wander). but right now she's into that romance new bo "he makes me so happy mode), give her space. if it was meant to be it will be. but youre in luck in a way...it took me a year and and a half to find this board :-\, listen carefully to what the women here have to offer...theyer smart, give a diferent perspective,and theyre funny too. ;)
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